Babyla's World

Not till we are lost, in other words, not till we have lost the world, do we begin to find ourselves.  Henry David Thoreau  Lately, I have been feeling stuck and overwhelmed with questions. At 38, I am frustrated and doubting if I have accomplished what I’m supposed to by now. The pressure to pursue a PhD, start dating again, and build a long-term relationship makes me question if I’m on the right path or if I’m falling behind my peers. I blame it on the so-called midlife transition , something many women go through. But let this blog be my first small step toward finding hope in the journey of my life.  I have come across the idea that rather than forcefully pushing for change, we should let it unfold naturally. This perspective resonates deeply with me as I reflect on my own journey. Nearly seven years have passed since I completed my master’s degree, and the idea of pursuing a PhD feels both daunting and overwhelming. The pressure has intensified as I see many others, ...

Welcome to the world of Precious, my pampered cat whose name says it all. Adopted as a tiny kitten from a dear colleague, Precious has brought endless joy and surprises into my life. In this blog, I’ll share our daily adventures, from her playful antics to our special bond and her charming quirks. Whether she's exploring crinkly toys or cozying up in her favorite spots, Precious turns every moment into something special. Join me as we celebrate the magic of my wonderful cat and the ways she makes every day brighter.  Meet Precious!  When I adopted Precious, she was around 5 months old in the third week of March 2022. At that time, I was going through one of the toughest periods of my life, feeling empty and directionless after the recent loss of my beloved fur babies, Luna and Giselle. Precious came into my life exactly when I needed her, and since then, she has completely changed my outlook. She brought new meaning, purpose, and unconditional love into my life. Precious ...